Energetic preparations for your next conception & birth

When it comes to preparing for your next pregnancy, most mothers will go through a check list in their head - “I’ve got a cot, pram, change table, capsule car seat, baby clothes, I think the big things are checked off”.. But there’s one big elephant in the room that hasn’t been addressed and that’s the energetic residue (and sometimes trauma) from your previous conception, pregnancy and birth.

Why is this important?

Your mind may be able to temporarily or permanently forget the pain, fear, anguish or trauma you went through - but your body and unconscious mind doesn’t. And your baby’s body doesn’t either! It’s important to clear the memories of emotional, mental and physical pain from your body (and your baby’s body) so that it doesn’t create energy imbalances that manifest as disease (when your energy body is in dis-ease). Not only can it cause imbalances, this energy can also block your next conception or cause issues (cycles of similarity) for your next pregnancy and birth.

Everybody's motherhood journey is unique. Each pregnancy each mother has, is unique. So it is no surprise, that every healing session for the mother-to-be is also unique! With this in mind, I like to tune into each mother’s individual story and dive into these 5 main areas: childhood, past preconception journey, past pregnancy, past birth and post natal experience. Let’s look at these individually:

Your Childhood

From the hundreds of sessions I have done with mothers and tuning into their babies, for me this is a fact: your childhood experiences, your karma, and your ancestral cycles, are HUGE determining factors for which baby Spirit you bring into this world. Healing childhood wounds and ancestral karma greatly impacts: your ability to conceive, your peri and post natal mental health, the type of child you call in, and your relationship with that child. 

Past Preconception Journey

How quickly or slowly and how easy or difficult your past preconception journey was will have a big shadow upon how you view your upcoming conception. There can be big expectations on the second conception if the first was conceived quickly or without intent. And anxiety can arise when the second conception is taking much longer than anticipated. Also if you had a grueling IVF process that took you to the brink of sanity, you may be dreading having to go through it again. The rollercoaster of the preconception journey can be a mentally wearing process. We want to clear the hologram of these experiences and expectations so you can go into the next conception journey with an energetic clean slate. 

Past Pregnancies 

The moment our little one is conceived, their Spirit comes onboard. And even though you may think this little fetus does not have the ability to perceive much, their Spirit hears and feels everything the mother does. Your energy fields are interwoven up until this baby turns 3. So with that being said, you can understand why it’s so important to not only clear what has happened for you as the mother, but also for your child (no matter how big they are now). 

It is also important to clear any past miscarriages, abortions, and stillbirths. There can be an array of emotions trapped from these intense times, especially when the mother has been unable, or unwilling, to grieve.

I’d like you to think back to your previous pregnancy(s). Western medicine can explain the symptoms of pregnancy - nausea, high blood pressure, GD, pelvic pain, insomnia, etc. And the energetic imbalances within the body that are at the core of these symptoms will also have a story to tell. 

What also leaves a big imprint on our energy body, is the mental and emotional states we experience throughout our pregnancy. Were you stressed out at work? Did you have to move home? Did you feel safe with your healthcare providers? Were you in a stable relationship at the time? All of these examples affect the energy imprint of pregnancy in our bodies. And something no one warned me about that probably affected my mental health more than anything - when you journey through the portal into motherhood, your childhood wounds resurface. (Another reason to come back to point #1). 

It’s so important to clear all of this so that you aren’t stuck in cycles of similarity. Your past pregnancies do not need to interfere with your future pregnancies. 

Past BirthS

The latest stats say that 45% of women experience birth trauma. If we were to redefine our definition of what birth trauma is, and looked at what is physically, mentally, spiritually best for both mother and child, I would say that statistic could easily be doubled. Unfortunately most mothers will have some form of negative experience during, or directly after, birth. 

The things we experience during and post birth can hugely fracture our feelings of safety, worth, ability, hope, confidence, sovereignty and innate knowing. All of which are gravely important in our motherhood tool kit. Healing your past birth story, we can reconnect you with these important feelings and experiences.

Post partum 

In this modern western society we are hugely lacking ritual, ceremony, tribe and village. This is one thing I pray we can turn around in these next generations! What was your post partum experience? Was your baby in NICU? Were you physically restricted after a c-section? Did you have a baby during the pandemic years? Did your financial situation see you returning to work before you were ready? How did your mental health hold up during this time? What changes or issues did you experience in your relationship?

The TCM practitioners note that it takes a woman’s body 7 years to fully heal from pregnancy and birth. Were you cared for and supported? Or were you burnt out and hanging on by a thread? Every postpartum journey has its pieces to address, though I find the karma set up after having your first child is the most important to clear and reset. 

We are all in this together..

Our mind, body and Spirit go through such huge shifts when we go through the motherhood cycle. It’s important to clear all significant negative experiences from our cells so that we do not imprint them into the next pregnancy. It’s also important to note that this isn’t just for the mothers. Your partner's thoughts, feelings and experiences from the previous parenthood journey will impact the next. I will always encourage both partners to clear their “stuff” to allow free flow for their next baby. Your partner may need to get on the table, but your children do not. All children under 15 can be cleared via a surrogacy session. If you have questions please reach out via the contact page, I would love to support you in clearing your past and make way for you to meet your Spirit babies! 

Jess x